A few days ago I saw one post on Facebook, >
''Some girls can't even cook an egg but can do make-up and think they're wifey material. what you gonna feed your husband? Fucking Avon''
And the first question running through my brain was: " ARE HUSBANDS ARMS GROWING FROM HIS ASS?? '
ok, it's pretty stupid- all you can do is- mix founder with some glitter. But does it makes me a worse woman?
If I am a woman automatically I have to be a wifey material? What the fuck does it mean?
WIFEY MATERIAL
It's like to say- oh you are a good girl - you will be a good toy for your husband.
You have beautiful hips. You will be good enough to give birth to his children.
Your arms are growing from the right place so you can cook for him and your house will always be clean...
Looking what ''wifey material'' means and it's what Google gives me first:
Ya, she's wife material, for sure.
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?
And only the second meaning (which makes me happier ):
'' Wife Material is a woman who is about her business. She is educated, can hold her own in a conversation, is generous but takes no shit. She will put your needs first and will give you breathing room as a man. She doesn't always have to look like a supermodel either because when those looks fade, she will have something valuable like her wifely duties to back it up.
She cooks, cleans, handles money really well. She is wife material. The reason Tamera is single is because she's wife material. Dudes ain't ready for her.
BUT STILL, there's something that makes me feel like - you are something good enough for a man.
If you have a vagina you have to cook for your man? and if you don't know how to cook it's something funny and unacceptable? Men have a penis but some of them don't know what to do with it.
Pull the pole out of your ass and stop being a marionette.
I sit here and try to think something similar about the men. But I can't.. why?
Because men are not subject to public stereotypes as much as women are.. Or is he?
And the saddest thing about that is many of girls reshare this shit and even don't see the background.
I just want you to be happy. If cooking and cleaning makes you happy- ok, go for this shit but is this what you really are made of or just something that your mom or someone else taught you to be?
With Love,
Yours SVALBON
BUT STILL there's something that makes me feel like - you are something good enough for a men.
If you have a vagina you have to cook for your man? and if you don't know how to cook it's something funny and unacceptable?
Pull the pole out of your ass and stop being marionette .
I sit here and try to think something similar about the men. But I can't.. why?
Because men are not subject to public stereotypes as much as women are.. Or is he?
And the saddest thing about that is many of girl reshare this shit and even don't see the background.
I just want you to be happy. If cooking and cleaning makes you happy- ok, go for this shit but is this what you really are made of or just something what your mom or someone else teached you to be?
With Love,
Yours SVALBON
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